Compliment Your Husband!

Ladies – want to have a wonderful marriage? The secret is in what I wrote above. Compliment your man. Not once, not twice, but regularly. Your husband has many needs, and one that is really really really really really important, is that you make them feel needed. They want to be your Knight in shining…

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Unmet Expectations

Guess what! I have figured my marriage out. I was married for just under 10 years, then divorced. I have remarried, and this year will be celebrating my fourteenth year anniversary. Guess what I have learned – the biggest cause of problems in a marriage are UNMET EXPECTATIONS. And upon learning that, I realized I…

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Don’t Ever Trash Talk Family

Disclaimer: I am writing about family, but just because I’m writing it doesn’t mean that the issues I bring up are going on in mine. I am speaking broadly, to encompass many families that I know, friends families, neighbors families, and co-workers families that I know experience the things I am planning on writing about….

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Learning the Hard Way

You know, lessons learned the hard way are so incredibly painful, but desperately needed if we are ever going to grow and change.  I’m going to generalize here, and I might be wrong, but I think that most people do NOT like to have their faults pointed out.  First of all, we already what our…

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It’s so unfair!

When Life is Unfair….throw it down the despair hole. Now, I’m sure you read that, and immediately thought, “What is she talking about?” LIFE IS UNFAIR Let’s face it right off the bat. Life.is.unfair. It will always be unfair. To you, to me, to your family, to your neighbor, to everyone. No-one is exempt from…

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Say What You Mean

We are all so incredibly different, but what I think we should all agree on is: say what you mean. Don’t be obscure, don’t beat around the bush, don’t hint, just say it! Hmm, perhaps I should market a hoodie that says “just say it!” Nah, I’d probably get in trouble from Nike for it…

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