Forgive Yourself First

Forgiveness is the only thing that can heal us from our hurts and wounds, not only to those who have hurt us, but the wounds that we have inflicted on others. You will never be able to live a happy fulfilled life if you keep beating yourself up over your past mistakes. Some of us…

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Don’t Let Hurt Fester

It’s almost a guarantee that all of us are going to get hurt every single day. There are so many different ways. Feelings are peculiar things. We rely on them more than we should. We really need to discipline ourselves to think and be rational and logical before we react to hurt feelings. Half of…

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Why is Forgiving so Hard?

Why oh why do we all struggle with forgiveness? It is one of the hardest things to do. Every single one of us have been hurt, most of us have apologized, some of us have asked for forgiveness, but most of us are unwilling to forgive. It’s one of the healthiest thing we could ever…

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Happiness is an Inside Job

Truth be told, happiness is ALWAYS an inside job. What goes on inside of your head (your thoughts) will show in your behaviour. What you think about, and what you focus on will decide your life. Happy people think happy thoughts. Miserable people think angry, revengeful, hateful thoughts. Jealous people compare themselves to others, and…

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Creatures of Habit

What is a creature of habit you ask?  Well, it’s someone (us) who does the same thing, in the same way, every time. Well, almost every time. We are all funny creatures of habit! We can do most things in our day without even thinking about them. When I started thinking about writing this post,…

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How to Forgive

Choosing to forgive someone can be extremely hard. When we are hurt, it stings. It’s painful. It causes deep feelings of bitterness and betrayal. So to be told that you need to forgive someone who hurt you is paramount to a slap in the face. Guess what. Forgiveness isn’t about the other person. When you…

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